I started my findom journey a little over two years ago, although looking back, the pieces of it had probably been there long before I ever had a name for it.
For years, I was familiar with Tumblr. It was where I went to find the kind of content that interested me. When Tumblr was shut down—or, more accurately, severely restricted—I was forced to look elsewhere. I bounced around sites like ThisVid and Pornhub, but eventually found myself wanting something different.
That’s when I reluctantly joined Twitter.
I’d never had a Twitter account before. The platform was completely unfamiliar to me, and at first, the interface felt overwhelming. I had no followers, wasn’t following anyone, and had absolutely no idea where to begin.
So I did what came naturally: I searched for the things that turned me on.
Over the next few months, I started figuring Twitter out. I found videos and pictures I liked. I started liking them, following accounts, and slowly watching my feed transform into something increasingly tailored to me.
Then I started discovering Spaces.
And eventually, I stumbled across findom Spaces.
I’d never heard the term before.
I quickly discovered an entire world built around dominance, submission, and money—a dynamic where men willingly gave their money to men they perceived as superior. The concept fascinated me.
What really caught my attention wasn’t just the money. It was the psychology behind it. Hearing stories about someone repeatedly sending money simply because of another man’s confidence, appearance, presence, or voice was something I found incredibly compelling.
And the more I learned about it, the more something started to click.
I’d always been a dominant person.
Professionally, I’m a manager, and I’ve always enjoyed leading people, coaching teams, making decisions, and taking responsibility. My friends and family would probably tell you I’m also the person who’s first to voice an opinion when I have one.
That part of me wasn’t something I had to manufacture for X.
It was already there.
So I started thinking about what my own dominant persona would look like online. Rather than inventing someone completely different from myself, I decided to lean into the qualities that already made me who I am.
A Puerto Rican man. Confident. Opinionated. Dominant. Someone who knows how to handle his money and isn’t afraid to take control.
And somewhere along the way, RicanBro was born.
That was the beginning.
Not the beginning of everything—but the beginning of understanding what this could become.
And that’s ultimately why I created this site.
I want this to be a space where both subs and doms can come to explore the world of dominance and submission—a place where the experiences, lessons, mistakes, discoveries, and stories I’ve collected along the way can be shared openly.
Some of these stories are meant to teach. Some are meant to challenge the way you think. Some might simply turn you on. But all of them are meant to give you a better understanding of the dynamic, the psychology behind it, and what it means to me.
More than anything, I want these stories to give you a better picture of who I am, how I think, how I approach dominance, and what you can expect when you step into my world.
This is my perspective, my experiences, and my journey. Welcome.
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